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                       You are not silly for having needs of tenderness

                         and ratifying and heedful within a affinity.

                             Those requisite aren’t perplexing 

                    Outgrowth of your meekness and self-deprecation or whichever

                          blotchy issues you have going for yourself

                         that’s just nonessential shit that people crave in each other

                         We should not rely on our partners for meeting our

                           emotional needs, we should rely on ourselves

                            We shouldn’t make it someone else’s  job to make us happy

                 Inside a healthy relationship being able to manifest the affection and love

                     your significant-other and you providing a haven for your relationship 

                    is zesting, not a sorrow.